About
I work at the intersection of communication, boundaries, and decision-making—primarily in organizational contexts where clarity exists in principle but breaks down under pressure.
I build, advise, and create across systems that demand clarity and durability—physical structures, organizations, and decisions under real constraint.
Across these contexts, the same pattern shows up repeatedly:
People don’t struggle with setting boundaries; they struggle with tolerating the frustration that follows.
That insight informs everything else on this site.
Written Work
I am the author of The Empowered Lover, a practical exploration of how individuals can strengthen relationships by taking responsibility for boundaries and change, rather than waiting for alignment from others.
While the book focuses on intimate relationships, the underlying dynamics—avoidance, misaligned expectations, and resistance to consequence—apply just as directly to professional and organizational environments.
The book remains a relevant resource for understanding how people behave once clarity creates discomfort.
Behavioral Tools
I have designed and built applied tools intended to make abstract behavioral patterns visible and usable.
One example is a personality typing framework developed to help people recognize how different communication styles interact under stress—particularly around conflict, authority, and decision-making.
The framework is not designed for self-improvement, labeling, or motivation.
Its purpose is to surface predictable friction points so they can be addressed directly rather than personalized, moralized, or avoided.
How This Informs My Work
Across writing, tools, and professional engagements, the through-line is consistent:
Clarity is rarely the problem
Alignment breaks when consequences appear
Systems fail when discomfort is deferred
My work focuses on what happens after insight, after agreement, and after skills are already present.
What This Page Is (and Is Not)
This page is not a complete professional history or a personal narrative.
It is a reference point for how I think, what informs my work, and why the other pages on this site are structured the way they are.